Kiss of Reality
To talk of illusions, are't they great? illusion or day dreaming help us to think of what we want to become in life. We literally see how life revolves us in that position . It's an entirely different world of pleasure, comfort and imagination. Most of our day dreaming or illusions make us more and more egocentric. The word ego means self . Hence by dreaming and visualization we become self-centered. We never realize that things we dream of can be achieved by us by programming ourselves to work for it . But somehow the pleasure of dreaming ourselves as someone important takes us away from the realistic approach to achieve that level of self-satisfaction and self-accomplishment.
幻想對于我們來說不美妙嗎?在我們一生中,是幻想,或者是說,是白日夢,讓我們去思考成為什么樣的人。我們認真的觀察我們的生命是循著怎樣的一條軌道。那時嚴格完全不同的世界,它充滿了愉悅\輕松和創(chuàng)意。我們的大多數(shù)幻想和白日夢會使得我們越來越以自我為中心。"EGO"這個詞的意思是自我。由于幻想,我們變得以自我為中心。我們從未有意識到,我們所夢想的事情是可以通過我們周詳?shù)挠媱澣崿F(xiàn)的。但不知何故,幻想成為某個著名人物的愉悅,卻使我們遠離了能夠與滿意和成就真實接觸的機會。
This leads to an increase in the frustration levels of our mind . Why frustrations? This is because what we are, and what we dream of are totally different . We raise ourselves to a very high pedestal and we see that we are not able to live up to our expectations. And when this happens, we become mentally restless.
無邊際的幻想導致我們挫折感越來越強。為什么會這樣?那是因為現(xiàn)實中的我們和幻想中的我們完全不同。我們把自己提到一個很高的層面,但實際上,我們根本不可能心如所愿。而每每想到這,我們便會焦慮不按。
The vital solution that will dissolve all our problems is to make up our minds to get realistic . This approach will make us come in terms with reality. And there is no better road to self-improvement rather than the path of reality. When you gauge yourself , you subconsciously make two columns in your mind. One consists of the things that you are good at ,and the other consists of the ares where you can improve. And believe it will boost us to work on our weak areas and strengthen them. Fortifying your weak areas will harness your conscience and improve you convert would be to must be. And when someting must happen, it always happens. This new you will improve you for the better and increase your levels of self-esteem.It will change your outlook to things.
要想解決所有的這些問題,我們必須讓自己變得現(xiàn)實些,這樣將使得我們接觸現(xiàn)實。沒有比了解實際情況更能夠提高我們自己的了。當你評價你自己的時候,在我們腦海中,會下意識的用兩種不同的方式。一種包括我們所擅長的方面,另一種則是我們能夠有所改進的。相信我這是一個好的開始,它將促使我們不斷的改進\完善自我。這就像給我們的良知套上了韁繩,使我們的不足的方面得到改善,提高我們的自信。有了自信,我們就會收獲我們想要的結果。當某些事情要發(fā)生的時候,它總會發(fā)生的。嶄新的,充滿自信的我們又會促進我們的發(fā)展,并且提高我們的自信心。這將會改變我們對事物的看法。
I would like to type the thoughts that have just sprung up in my mind. Read and ponder on each line.I admit that it's a sad aim at poetry, but I am allowing my mind to control my typing.
我喜歡把那些從我大腦里跳出來的每一個想法記錄下來。我靜靜的讀并且認真思考每一行,我承認它也許不是一首好詩,但是,我可以說,我記錄下來的都是我思想的每一個微粒。
If you want to achieve what you couldn't have
如果你想要做到你能力之外的事情
If you want to be what you want to be
如果你想要成為你所期望的樣子
If you want to do what you can do,
如果你想要做你能夠做的,
but aren't doing
但你沒有做
If there is a place,you want to be
如果有一個地方,你想要去
but haven't been
但卻沒有去
You will get there, become the one and do it
你今后一定會到那里,成為那個成功到達的人
Cos its all in a state of mind.
因為成和敗全都在你的思想
Make up your mind and rule the stars.
下定決心你就可以支配你的命數(shù)
Control your mind and make your fate.
管制你的思想就可以改變自己的命運
I hope this conveys my thoughts with clarity.So it's some advice and suggestion to all those eyeballs running through this part of the book, to keep their heads on their shoulders without using heads and shoulders! And believe me guys; you guys have it in you to make it big . Just don't let that teenage iconoclastic habit rule over sense.
我希望這些話,清楚的表達了我的思想。對正在觀看這部分書的人來說它是建議和忠告,使他們能夠有自己的想法,無須提醒。相信我,你們身上也有這些讓幻想成為現(xiàn)實的潛能。不要讓十幾歲的叛逆心理控制了自己的理智。
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